Took even longer to admit it to him. If it continues too much and is a clear sign of interfering with the disciplinary process in an effort to get you to stop, then you have another issue to deal with all together. A relationship that infantilizes a woman is one that clearly draws a more pathological group of people. I know when I overspend that I will be punished hard and I also know that I deserve that punishment. It makes me feel very secure. His authority is arousing even though the spanking hurts.
All women have an innate need to submit. If it continues too much and is a clear sign of interfering with the disciplinary process in an effort to get you to stop, then you have another issue to deal with all together. I agree, consent for doing spanking gor erotic reasons or if your partner enjoys it masochism, etc is fine. That means you don't need to brawl. I love it when he takes control. We have all had relationships where the sex is great at first especially if you do this , but goes downhill once the relationship gets dull or stale. High stupid high levels of testosterone.
Domestic Discipline in Relationships by Brenna Part 3
I have gotten lonely sometimes and started doing more stuff with my friends and our neighbors. Why a man should be the one to take charge? My husband and I have been married 2 years now and I was the one that recently brought this lifestyle up. Spanking should never always be your go to thing either but abuse is not taking the time to learn your child and the ways to best correct that child and being willing to do it responsibly. Now you mentioned kids well i have 7 from 21 down to 9 years old.
The worse spanking was visiting her mother, I was taken to the bedroom, and got the spanking of my life, not from my wife but my mother-in-law. All very true but very hard to find this dynamic nowadays. Say, "I've spanked you for this repeatedly, and I'm not seeing any change. Are you shocked — and possibly abhorred — by the very thought of it? We can talk about this later.